the grand lemurplayplace FAQ
Q: I dislike you and what you’re doing. Where should I go to spread rumors?
A: Feel free to send anonymous messages to my Tumblr!
Q: where else can I find you?
A: all of my publicly available socials are listed here.
Q: is English your first language?
A: no. it Is not. so I very much apologize if I phrase things incorrectly.
Q: how old are you?
A: I am usually 4 years old. I am a permakid & permatoddler who ageslides infrequently between 4-8. I don’t consider myself to have ever aged out of my childhood due to the abuse I faced & my disabilities stunting my mental growth.
Q: no. I mean. how old are you, really???
A: if the answer I gave above doesn’t suffice just note that my chronological age is not information I am ever willing to give (for my own safety & simply because that’s just not how old I am). you’re free to make your assumptions, but unless I for some reason have to mention it, I will not.
if it helps - the number is below 18
Q: if you’re 4 then why are you mutuals with R18 accounts & accounts that post non kid appropriate things?
A: age discriminating labels do very little to stop me
Q: if you’re 4 then why are you talking in full sentences and stuff?
A: I do my homework :P
Q: what species are you?
A: I am primarily a ring-tailed lemur. although I have many other species in an exhaustive list I haven’t made yet. just note that I’m also a webkinz unicorn lps puppy neopet alien zombie ^_^
Q: are you a paraphile? what are your paraphilias?
A: yes! I am a paraphile and very open about my identity as one (within the realm of these accounts I have). I consider myself an AAM (though that isn’t much of a para in of itself).
I have so many other paras but I don’t want to list them all here. due to lack of space.. so click here to see them all.
Q: what’s your contact stance?
A: I am a contact stance abolitionist due to the discourse around those labels being unhelpful towards paraphile liberation in general.
Ultimately I am pro consent, pro love, & anti (nonconsensual) abuse.
I personally am uncomfortable discussing any serious acts of contact on paras such as zoosadism, nepiosadism/pedosadism, & biastophilia (non-cnc/consensual acts of contact) for personal reasons regarding my trauma history - so please refrain from this.
Q: are you in a relationship?
A: yes! I am dating my big brother and have been for almost 3 years now. I’m also in a QPR with my littermate, elephant & I yumeship with several characters. namely my beloved groomer, connie. I talk about all of them quite a bit.
Q: are you really dating your brother?
A: duh. lol :P I love my big brother & he loves me. our relationship has been the greatest thing to ever happen to me.
Q: incest is grooming isn’t it? doesn’t he have some kind of power imbalance over you?
A: if you’re unable to grasp the fact that I recognize my own bodily autonomy & am exercising it in a way I choose - then that’s on you. people who believe incestuous relationships can never be consesual, do not interact with me.
Q: what’s the age gap?
A: 15 years (when i’m 4).
Q: who are your other yumeships outside of connie?
A: you can find a list of my yumeships alongside my sharing stances here.
Q: do you have any major boundaries or dni?
A: not really. flirting makes me a bit uncomfortable but as long as you’re doing it jokingly and it’s obvious that you’re joking I won’t get upset. asking me about personal info such as my agab, chrono age, deadname, etc is something i’m highly against. other than that, if I don’t like what you’re doing i’ll just block.
I tend to block accounts of anti shippers, anti paras, anti radqueers, terfs, & bigots on principle.
however I ask that “NL” (no limits) accounts, gooner accounts, and strictly NSFW accounts don’t request to follow my Twitter or any other spaces.
As a victim of non consensual CSAM being spread of me - I do not take kindly to people who spread that sort of material (especially if they are openly trading it). While I am a youth liberationist ; ultimately CSAM is still inherently abusive.
Also, this shouldn’t have to be said but I don’t know every detail about the people I follow. I usually just follow random people who are visibly para-safe or radqueer safe accounts. Me following someone is not a co-sign of their actions unless I say so myself publicly. I am 9 times out of 10 not aware of any shit that my mutuals do.
Please don’t DM me with some “you follow this person who did (x) and (x) and blah blah blah” or any other form of callout culture. If you have a genuine concern - reach out via strawpage or twitter & state your case in a civil manner.
I am very friendly! Do not be afraid to reach out if you are worried about something.
Q: what are your stances/blankqueer stances?
A: I consider myself a post radqueer but ultimately call myself a radqueer to save the trouble of explaining PRQ to others.
other blankqueer & adjacent labels I use: agepunk, altruqueer, anonyqueer, beequeer, birthpunk, bladequeer, blockqueer, bloomqueer, compassionqueer, cripplepunk, dogpunk, dysphoric/nondysphoric solidarity, empathyqueer, fiction freedom, fiction protection, forgivenessqueer, genderpunk, idgafqueer, imevilashitbroqueer, jollyqueer, knowledgequeer, muttqueer, natalpunk, nemaguaqueer, noirqueer, paxisqueer, personality disorder solidarity, PLUR-al, pluralpunk, proship, purepunk, raddestqueer, radfag, radhippie, radjectum, radplur, radyume, rawrqueer, sparkledogshipping, toonqueer, wokequeer, youth liberation
Q: you are a lemur and are a toonaphile radqueer paraphile. aren’t you just copying ezra toonimal?
A: I am rewriting my response to this question because clearly my first one wasn’t getting the point across enough.
I am not Ezra. I have nothing to do with Ezra. I didn’t base my personality off of Ezra. the only thing we have in common is that we both have lemur sonas & are paraphiles.
I don’t know Ezra’s current whereabouts either. Any information that I do know about Ezra is insanely surface level & through word of mouth.
txto