Hey! Mwah! Thanks for reading this. I only made this because this was supposed to be my extended and/or boundaries Rentry but I’m 1) in a slump and 2) turning it into a infopage. This is my long yet abridged BYF-boundaries thing. I’m… not sure either. Kill me about any of this here ~♡
I don’t talk to many people often & am a massive recluse. I usually stick to my main friend circle & some other people unnamed because you already know who you are. I do not join or associate myself within Rentry(cord) servers in any way, shape, or form, especially not at this precise moment because of my burnout and busy nature. I was in one server in the past, but even then I barely spoke. The most servers I will ever join are ones of friends for their friends ^^;; I think a lot of Rentrycorders are quite two-faced and prone to backstabbing and I don’t wanna deal with that LOL. I may have a few friends who are briefly involved in the scene but that does not reflect back onto me.
- I hate two-faced bitches, LARPs and posers, liars, sheep, and self-proclaimed unironic “controversial people”. If you feel called out that’s on you okay? Not my fault.
Another big point: if you have a problem with me, let’s talk it out. I don’t feel like dealing with anonymous hate even though I find it funny. If you have the same energy to send me dumb shit in my inbox, I’m sure that we can also find a compromise somewhere. Just let me know! I know that not everyone is entitled to reconciliation, but I really am a amicable and mature person beneath my insane online persona because, well, who doesn’t be dramatic on the internet? I don’t really care admittedly about any bullshit being said about me by someone I fell out with, and I’ll probably be a little bit stingy about forgiving if I find out eventually you were shit-talking me in the past, but I am a very vindictive person at the same time. Sorry? Every issue you may ever have with me is one made by yourself! I probably won’t respect you either if you don’t have the maturity to reconcile or be normal. Just letting you know
If you do make the decision to reach out, I would much rather prefer to have a level-headed and mature conversations about what I did wrong instead of verbally degrading me about something I allegedly said or did that upset you. I’m not really a human but I’m in the shape of one but I will make mistakes so there’s no need to kill me about it.
Do NOT dictate who I am and am not friends with. If they aren’t on my Rentry, they either aren’t my friend or I have yet to update it, although I do a pretty good job at doing so. If you really have to ask if I still associate with someone, the answer is most definitely a “no”. I do not care if my friend is a fan of a franchise or trope you dislike, art is suggestive and not for everyone. I don’t want drama regarding my friends (or even my ex-friends) unless they are a actual hazard to humanity (groomer, abuser, etc.) and preferably with proof because although I find everyone guilty until proven innocent, it’s still quite insane… TLDR: Don’t bother me about my friends, especially not my ex-friends, unless its dire.
How I keep rent down in my neighborhood: I love DD:DNE, dark tropes, ships, all of the sort, I Love RPF, I don’t care about lolisho but there is also no such thing as “fictional CSEM” or the like, and I am vehemently anti-harrassment, censorship, shit like that. Although I would call myself “proship”, internet spaces have watered it down so badly I find it uncomfortable. My full stance on fiction vs. reality is here if you wanna read that and find something Else to hop in my inbox about. I also like to call celebrities and characters I like gay when they act like it. Yes that celebrity is transgender, and that one is a lesbian. If you get mad at this just know I’m not one of those people who actually tries to gaslight the celebrities themselves into it. Also that means you need to GET AWAY FROM ME
I’m very emotionally volatile & pretty intense, not so much as of me returning to proper medication, but sometimes I can still be a bit erratic & floaty. I’m affected the most prominently by severe BPD, ADHD, and autism with a couple comorbid traits thrown in there of some other shit I ought to get evaluated on; I’ll let you make the assumption yourself, I don’t care. I am not legally bound to tell you in what hyper specific way my conditions affect me, you will see for yourself. Maybe? I usually mask in conversations, but my personal life with my conditions is My personal life. I don’t like talking about it unless I’m speaking to a close friend with the same disorders. I’m a really snarky and sarcastic person on average, but I never mean any real genuine harm. If I did, I promise you would be able to tell, but it never gets that far unless you really piss me off. Do not ask me to use tonetags though. I am not listening to you and your cries will fall on deafened ears and blinded eyes. Ask me to explain my tone like a normal person. I am also (generally speaking) a massive introvert and bibical accurate sx5 phenotype, but I love small talk & chats nonetheless. But… please do not also expect me to reach out first. Unless its dire. I wholeheartedly would rather die. Although I love making friends I struggle just as much getting close to people. Thank you
- I think DNI lists are pretty entitled to be honest but my one other limitation except for no -18 interactions outside of URL trading purposes are the same lump of people who use Easian celebrities (especially J-rockers. I see you with that Oresama icon.) for aesthetic purposes without bothering to get into them at the very least. It’s something that makes me uncomfortable, so it’s going in the boundary page! Thanks. Even if it makes me seem “holier than thou” nonetheless whoever you talk to is probably going to grasp that it’s a strange behaviour. Lol. Stay mad I guesssss
Alright I know I said I find DNI lists entitled but upon second thought and some real deep introspection I think you bitches are getting too brave with me, so here. I do not want to associate with people actively taking part in TCC communities, Ziotards, anyone pro-harassment, Radfems & T.R.A.S.H, so-called problematic people (unironically, as a joke its fine), antiship, and anything adjacent, you get the drift. I think observing true crime from a criminology/ist or psychologist angle is fine, but if I catch you RTing Zero Day screenshots or anything regarding and PRAISING real-life criminals you’re getting blocked. Also, no, just because you include trans women within your “radfem” label and identity does not make you all of a sudden a good person or a better radical feminist than the rest. Just die. If you really cared you wouldn’t call yourself a radfem to be honesttttt.
- Don’t try and catch-22 me about my opinion on TCC just because I am a fan of Nicole Dollanganger. You’re funny as fuck if you do and I will laugh at you. None of her songs regarding real criminals are ones I like anyways, and if I do, I barely listen to them. Also just because people like celebrities doesn’t mean they like everything they do, make, or stand for. I also don’t want celebrity dickriders around me its weird.
I like media with NSFW-heavy tropes (in both the blood and sexual content way), so I really would not like to build too many close bonds with the under 18 squad and would much rather befriend fellow adults, but I still do kick it with anyone who’s nice, just don’t expect to get suuuupeer close with me (:
txto