Hello, my name is Marvellem. I’m bigender(female/male) I use any pronouns but mostly (she:her/he:him).
I have autism(moderate support needs) & adhd. These can effect how i interact with people. I have boundaries and I would love them to be respected.
My interests include:Michael Jackson,the color pink and anything pink,black cats, cats(in general ),academics,cartoons,fashion,Art & crafts,my little pony,horror,junji Ito collection,addms family(1964) ,typolgoy systems.
My studies include: neuropsychology,typolgoy,literature,neuroscience.
MY BOUNDAIRES: •don’t assume things that aren’t true about me without asking my intent and weaponised my disability to make yourself feel better. •do not pathologies everything: I do and say not everthing is explained by my disbalites some are though-and even if they are please don’t weaponized them and don’t use them to dismiss what I’m saying d don’t compare my fuentioing to another person and how 1 communicated jsut because I communicate efficiently at times doenst mean I don’t have high support needs.
•listening to my perspective on certain distinct discipline;don’t assume disagreeing with ignorance’s
• don’t think you “understand “ my disability jsut to prove something to me, •my wording can come off as very blunt and direct ;but it doesn’t mean I don’t have empathy, I share it differently then others - if I’m communicating something and it come across as very dismissive please be direct with me but don’t insult me or call me immature due to unconventional communication style.
•if I did something bad or an intent that wasn’t intentional and you tell me I’ll take accountablity for my actions but if you expect me to read the room knowing social cues can be ambiguous to me and don’t tell me, Ill probably wouldn’t pick up on them at all!! and can lead to mindersrsnding please tell me. Tone tags will always help.
• get very intense about my interests ;these are very apart of me and identity boundary, don’t take it personal that I think your inferior to me when I explain them in great detail and if it comes off this way again please be direct. Directness‡immature and defensive.
txto